Overcoming Limiting Beliefs and Emotional Triggers Through Deep Nervous System Healing

I'm extremely busy. I'm a mom of three kids. I work full-time. I sit on about four different boards as the president, and I just don't have a lot of free time, so I wouldn't have done it so often unless it was truly transformative, which is, it is. My name is Megan Naldutti, and I am from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Yeah, I mean, the difference between transformative listening and other personal growth programs is that it's like the work happens here and now. The other programs, including like a year-long program that I was in, it was great conceptually. It was great to kind of put on your calendar, and I found myself being like, "I really hope this is working. Well, it didn't work last month. I really hope it works this month." And transformative listening is like you're on the phone for an hour, you get off the phone, the work has been done. The thing that it's so helpful with, transformative listening is so helpful, I knew what changes that I wanted to make in my life and kept coming to the same pain points. And I was like, "I'm really frustrated. I've joined this year-long group to like change my mindset, and I'm still suffering at times, and I don't understand how this is possible." And Ilya was like, "But I do," and so you have to let it out in front of a loving other who is willing to witness it. I think the biggest problems for me personally that I was struggling with was, and it was interesting, I had kind of identified it. I knew my limiting beliefs. I knew that I felt like that I wasn't good enough, and I wasn't able to change those limiting beliefs without transformative listening. And when you're telling your story and you get a little tearful or you get a little giggly or you get a little like wiggly, and he's like, "Right there. That's it. Stick with that." And he just guides you down the path of depth to be able to go to that pain point, open it up, and release it. I'm a mom of three kids. Rather than lecturing me more, "How did it make you feel? You wanna cry? Cry. You wanna be angry? Be angry." I was getting triggered like, "Don't raise your voice at me," or, "Don't you talk to me." And now it's like this is nothing personal. This is them healing their system. Even when I started at first, I was like, "That's so helpful. That made sense." But this one in particular, he said, "When's the first time you felt that feeling?" Like I was feeling something. I don't know why I'm feeling this way. And he's like, "Great. It's not happening right now. This is like a memory. This is an old thing." And it was at that moment, I'm like, "Oh my gosh, my nervous system is ready for this." I can drop in so much faster. My nervous system is ready. We're gonna go big, and we're gonna go deep, and we're gonna talk about this stuff 'cause it's safe to release them in this room of transformative listening. It's safe to do it with Ilya. I mean, for those of you who are considering transformative listening and are unsure, I ... Listen to your gut. You'll just know. Talk to Ilya. Have a conversation with Ilya and have him guide you through it and listen to your gut and how you feel. I mean, your nervous system is just gonna tap into the safety and brilliance of this program. Do not listen to just your chattery mind who would be like, "Well, I don't have the time, and I don't have the energy, and I have to do all other stuff." Like, that's you holding yourself back. Allow yourself this time to truly, truly heal.