Identifying the Right Partner and Breaking Patterns in Three Months

And actually what I uncovered is that that partner wasn't the right partner for me at all, [laughs] which is, uh, very helpful information. So I wasted a lot less time than usual. Gretchen Prins. I live in Las Vegas, Nevada, and I'm in pharmaceutical sales. I would say that I wasn't really choosing the right partners for a period of time in my life. In some of the dating I was doing, I needed to understand kind of what the man was telling me and how to explain things to a man that I wanted, and Ken is an expert at translating, I would say. I really liked the way he wrote a lot of his articles and explained just relationship dynamics. At first I hesitated because he seemed to specialize in working with long-term couples, and that's not the situation I was in. Um, I was in a, a situation where I was newly dating someone and wanted to know if this was the right match. On the surface, this partner looked like a great potential match, and Ken was able to ask both of us separately and together questions to dig deeper. It actually only took me about three months to find out this was not my match. Thanks to the, the work that I did with Ken, that kind of sped up the process to open me to someone who really was the right match for me. Was I holding on to, like, one positive aspect of a person? Which I finally realized that was my pattern. Ken's words of wisdom have sat with me for quite some time. Trying to basically fit a square peg into a round hole does not work. If you're thinking about working with Ken, I think whether you want your relationship to be deeper or you wanna decide if you want to stay in a relationship or not, either way, he is the perfect person to work with. He can see a situation clearly that you may not be able to see when you're in it yourself. You know, when you really learn what is underneath what you think the problem is, and you have someone to translate it back to you and explain it like Ken does, then you can go much deeper in your relationships.