Deepening Intimacy Through Skillful Conflict Resolution Tools and Collective Community Wisdom

Speaker 1: This is the love of my life, Dina. Speaker 2: And this is my future husband, Jason. Speaker 1: And our collective name of our entity, our third eye, is Wenis. Because we think this is a funny part of human anatomy and we like comedy, and it's also the we, the ness of we, so we're not sure if that's gonna be our name, but right now it's placeholder. Speaker 2: For now, it sticks. Speaker 1: Why I said yes to the Summit of Love is my respect for Eben and Annie Lala. I've run into Annie a number of times throughout the last several years being here in Austin, and there's really very few people that have the command of intellect, poetry, science, and just truth. She just speaks truth, and I have seen very much their ripples throughout the Austin community. Anyone that they work with, I've only heard amazing things. So, I came really excited just to deepen with you and to have very skillful people showing us ways to deepen our love and give us tools. Speaker 2: What really surprised me by being here at the Summit of Love is getting to witness the genius zones of every couple that are so unique and so original, and getting to see my own genius in our relationship come to life, and what alchemy tends to happen when you bring couples that are committed in love together to share and exchange magic, codes, and wisdom, and drop the resistance of, "How can we lean more into our love and intimacy and fall deeper in love with each other?" 'Cause it's an endless well of, of love that's available. Speaker 1: I've run a lot of events throughout my career and I have never seen such skillful leadership in the sense of they are leaders in bringing out the leaders in all of us, and they also are embodying their weaknesses and their struggles. They're not bringing a fake, polished version of who they are. They're letting us see who they are for their genius, for their struggles, and they have a tremendous amount of humility and openness to everyone in the space has something that is of value. And I've, I've really never seen a facilitation group do group leadership better than, than Annie and Eben do. Speaker 2: The funniest moment is Stacy's Heaven On Earth acronym for and bringing such humor and wisdom into this philosophy that the more we embrace our inner HOEs, the more we bring Heaven On Earth, the collective no sphere of relationship. And the most profound, there's so many profound bits of wisdom that I've extrapolated from each couple here. I'd like to acknowledge that I'm becoming more aware that our collective relationship is actually an entity and has its own consciousness, that we get to grow and shape and create and feed with our rituals, practices, and the, the support of community to help that consciousness keep evolving and growing. Speaker 1: Yeah, tons of one-liners, rituals make the invisible visible. And we love rituals, but to have more of a framework of why rituals are important. And they taught us a soothing mantra, which is when your partner's freaking out and they're not regulated, they teach you a step-by-step process of how to unlock their suffering. And I, I really love how it was put, "It's not your duty to do it, but if you're better resourced and you can do this, it can be a get out of jail free card for the both of you." And to see them coach, real-time, these couples that love each other deeply, but are stuck in some of these areas it was just so simple, but so profound of, you know, now we have this piece of paper, all of us in this just training, that is unlocking our partner when we feel resourced to do it. And it's almost like, I don't wanna say it out loud, I've already said it out loud, I'll say it 1 more time just for the camera, I'm kind of looking forward to our next meltdown so I can try this thing. Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like handing your partner the keys to the OS software update that they really crave in those moments of trigger and nervous system breakdown. And I feel so confident, it's like gamified now. It's like we both are striving to meet each other with that, rather than be stuck in the meltdown, because we feel cheered on by this invisible audience of our higher selves, for us to step into our excellence and nurture our inner childs. Speaker 1: The Summit of Love accesses multiple geniuses, people that are in love in such deep ways and have such amazing, unique codes for you. You can't get it from 1 person, you can only get it from this collective. Speaker 2: The future of love is community, and in this collective where you receive the support and get to be a leader in equal leadership with your partner, it's easy to say yes to committing to your partner forever and choosing this union forever. And this environment makes it so easy to say yes to that.