ShareOne ReviewsWhat do real people say about relationship coaching?
27 people recorded interviews about relationship coaching across 8 organisations. 13 of them mentioned better family or relationship life in their own words. Every figure below is a count of what people said in their recorded interview — not a clinical trial or a survey.
First-hand accounts from people who talked about relationship coaching in their recorded interview.
What people said changed
Counts of interviews where the person described this in their own words.
- Family & relationships13 of 27 mentioned it
“We had tried a lot of things and had been in a pretty unhealthy relationship for, like, five and a half years before we found Transformative Listening.”Christina H.
- Felt supported11 of 27 mentioned it
“Life before Transformative Listening was very heavy.”Andre D.
- Confidence5 of 27 mentioned it
“Transformative Listening really helped me sort of turn down the volume on that voice that's, you know, holding me back and allowing me to discharge some of those fears, some of that anger, so I can, like, be my full o…”Andre D.
- Weight change1 of 27 mentioned it
“I needed more tools to help me shed some of that weight.”Andre D.
- Less medication1 of 27 mentioned it
“And through Transformative Listening, it's like you take your problems in this Petri dish and you culture them out, and then you find, like, the exact antidote, antibiotic to kill those.”Jessie B.
- More energy1 of 27 mentioned it
“The other thing that I felt that the coaching helped with was helping to break down the masculinity and femininity part of who we all are. energy that I up until now, had carried predominantly, and now how I have lear…”Harriet Lemberger-Schor
- More clients1 of 27 mentioned it
“So, what I've noticed from him - not only just with working with me but with all of my clients that I recommend Tyler to - is that he has been able to help people with a variety of topics from health, money, relations…”Kiana
- Better systems1 of 27 mentioned it
“And we love rituals, but to have more of a framework of why rituals are important.”Jason & Dina 11-25
Stories in this topic
Showing 12 of 27 interviews.
- Transformative ListeningWatchFrom Heavy Emotional Load to Lightness and Mastery Over ConflictAndre D. describes Transformative Listening as an amazing tool for emotional regulation and openness. After feeling a 'heavy, exhausting load' for years, he experienced a shift to feeling light and seeing possibility after just one session. He now handles con…Andre D. · Transformative Listening
WatchOvercoming Relationship Resentment and Learning to Trust Intuition to Choose MarriageKristen Struble worked with Ken Blackman of Sovereignty In Connection LLC to triage her two-year relationship and resolve deep-seated resentments. By learning to trust her body's intuition and communicate needs effectively, she moved past her fear of 'choosin…Kristen Struble · Sovereignty In Connection LLC, Ken Blackman Relationship Coach
WatchOvercoming Fear of Visibility and Dating After 20 Years AloneKathy Carlson/Young used Brave Thinking Institute’s Manifest Your Man program to transition from self-sacrifice to prioritizing her own love life after 20 years of being single. Through one-on-one coaching and VIP fireside chats, she successfully overcame fea…Kathy Carlson/Young · Brave Thinking Institute
WatchDiscovering a New Level of Intimacy and Shared Purpose Beyond ExpectationsAnnie and David attended Summit of Love to elevate their already strong marriage. Despite believing they had reached their peak, the couple discovered a 'next level' of intimacy, uncovering hidden desires and defining a shared 'couples entity' vision. David n…Annie & David 5-25 · Summit of Love
WatchAchieving Unparalleled Self-Awareness and Objective Personal Insights Through Advanced Behavioral TestingSavannah Frank reports that Aboutly provides unparalleled, objective self-discovery training that surpasses traditional assessments like Myers-Briggs. By utilizing top-notch testing processes over a two-day period, Frank gained accurate insights into her beha…Savannah Frank · Aboutly
WatchJamie and Lauri Overcome Relationship Pressure Through WeDeepen Immersion and Mastermind CoachingJamie and Lauri credit Love Club and the WeDeepen immersion for transforming their relationship trajectory. After meeting at a Tantra speed date, they utilized mastermind coaching with Annie and Yosef to eliminate 'head trash' regarding long-term pressure. Th…Jamie and Lauri · Love Club
WatchSaved Marriage and Overcame Limiting Beliefs Through Accelerated Performance CoachingKiana Danial, CEO of Invest Diva, credits Elite Performance Coaching with saving her marriage and accelerating her personal growth. After struggling with traditional therapy, she experienced a breakthrough in her first 10-minute session. The method identifies…Kiana · Elite performance coaching
WatchTransitioned from Finance to a Successful Coaching Practice with Deep Personal FreedomYanush Cherkis credits Karen Davis Coaching with his successful transition from finance to running his own coaching business. Over six years, Cherkis achieved a 'life of freedom' with a steady stream of referrals and restored family relationships, specificall…Yanush Cherkis · Karen Davis Coaching- Transformative ListeningWatchSaved Marriage on the Brink of Divorce and Reclaimed Intimacy Through VulnerabilityChristina H. used Transformative Listening to save her marriage when she and her husband were on the brink of divorce and living separated. After five and a half years of destructive patterns and failed traditional therapy, they achieved a level of intimacy c…Christina H. · Transformative Listening
WatchJulianne M Forbes Achieves Tremendous Confidence and Relationship Clarity Through Self-Love and CoachingJulianne M Forbes transformed her personal life through Brave Thinking Institute’s Manifest Your Man program and one-on-one coaching. By shifting to a self-love paradigm and utilizing a year’s worth of lessons on feminine energy and communication, she gained…Julianne M Forbes · Brave Thinking Institute
WatchNewly Engaged Couple Learns Invaluable Tools for Conflict Resolution and IntimacyKJ and Jamie attended Summit of Love to kick off their engagement. They gained the 'soothing mantra,' a step-by-step instructional process to unwind breaks in connection and ensure quick recoveries. Jamie noted the event was the most impactful experience they…KJ & Jamie 11-25 · Summit of Love
WatchHealing past traumas to improve relationships with partners, friends, and familyAdrienne Brooks found that Love Club provided a transformative, curated experience that helped her address past traumas and the resulting anger. By utilizing tools from experienced coaches and participating in a platonic tantra concert, she gained the ability…Adrienne Brooks · Love Club
What people were sceptical about first
- “Andre D. was initially a skeptic who grew up in a household where emotions weren't considered real. He recommends trying it just once to see how your body feels, noting that he felt an immediate shift from heavy to light after his first experience.”Andre D.
- “And certainly, without being in the Manifest Your Man program, I really doubt I would yet be focusing on or even aware of how much I really am looking forward to being in partnership again.”Kathy Carlson/Young
- “Jamie and Lauri felt nervous and 'sick to their stomach' due to pressure about their long-term future before their session. However, the coaching helped them blow up those ideas, allowing them to feel way more relaxed and enter a blissful state.”Jamie and Lauri
Frequently asked
- Does Transformative Listening work if I am a skeptic?
- Andre D. was initially a skeptic who grew up in a household where emotions weren't considered real. He recommends trying it just once to see how your body feels, noting that he felt an immediate shift from heavy to light after his first experience. — Andre D.
- How does the practice help with interpersonal conflict?
- Andre explains that he no longer has as much conflict because he can recognize when others are distressed and hold a 'listening space' for them to shed that distress, rather than reacting to it. — Andre D.
- What happens during a Transformative Listening retreat?
- Andre participated in 'rage sessions' where he used specific exercises to express bottled-up anger. He described a curated scene where he was held down by seven men, which led to a breakthrough about no longer wanting to carry other people's emotional loads. — Andre D.
- Is relationship coaching worth the financial investment?
- Kristen Struble noted that money was a 'big one' for her and her partner, but she views it as a commitment to oneself and honoring the coach's ability to address finances, emotional intelligence, and past trauma. — Kristen Struble
- How does Ken Blackman compare to traditional therapy?
- Kristen found that Ken could navigate challenging partnership dynamics in a way no therapist she had worked with before could, specifically by translating body language and keeping the conversation focused rather than tangential. — Kristen Struble
- Can coaching help if I'm afraid of making a mistake in marriage?
- Yes, Kristen struggled with the fear of 'Russian roulette' in choosing a spouse; Ken helped her break down those walls by teaching her to find 'true yeses and nos' in her body intuition. — Kristen Struble